To all my friends, I just want to clarify that nothings wrong with our relationship and we are staying happy and strong. I made this blog due to all of different kind of status, tweets and shout outs in these social networking sites which I observed. Very intriguing, so I just want to give you some points on how to know or when to act towards your partner in which you think is cheating on you.
Main question here is, "How to know if my partner is cheating on you?". Well, trust is very vital in every relationship but if you feel somethings different then you must do something or else you will end up like you have this stamp on your forehead captioned "JACKASS". We've often heard of relationships ending or marriages breaking up over infidelity. There are many mistakes that can be, and are, forgiven in a relationship, but cheating is one of those almost unforgivable ones but it will always depends on you on how you forgive and to forget.
Main question here is, "How to know if my partner is cheating on you?". Well, trust is very vital in every relationship but if you feel somethings different then you must do something or else you will end up like you have this stamp on your forehead captioned "JACKASS". We've often heard of relationships ending or marriages breaking up over infidelity. There are many mistakes that can be, and are, forgiven in a relationship, but cheating is one of those almost unforgivable ones but it will always depends on you on how you forgive and to forget.
Here are some of the classic points on how to know if your partner is cheating on you:
1. Gets defensive if you ask questions.
You must beware always of this acts especially when they feel so guilty when you ask even just a simple question. In a relationship, life should be open for both individuals. Sharing of thoughts and ideas are typically normal. If your partner starts to get defensive or gets irritable and wants to avoid answering your question, then you should better watch out.
2. If your partner starts paying extra care to his/her appearance.
After being in a relationship for a while, most people get complacent and start neglecting their appearance because they already feel that they're already loved but if your partner is one of those, and suddenly starts taking extra care to be impeccably groomed, they could be trying to impress someone else.
3. Secretive.
If your previously open and communicative partner suddenly goes into a shell and clams up or starts concealing things from you, especially with sharing of mobile phones, gadgets, social networking sites or even things, be warned.
4. Wants to go out with his/her friends EXCLUSIVELY.
If your partner keeps making excuses to go out on dates with you or be alone with you, your antenna should be up. Also, if your partner keeps wanting to meet with his friends or classmates and tell you things like "You wouldn't be comfortable, it's my classmates/office mates/etc", you'd do well after a while, to do a background check with some of those person's your partner claiming to go out with. It's best to appear casual in your questioning though because, in case he or she is telling the truth you wouldn't want him or her to accuse you of snooping around.
5. Wants privacy.
If your partner wants to be left alone when on the telephone or stops in the middle of a phone conversation when you enter the room and tells the caller "I'll call you back", ask yourself why.
If a relationship has to be successful, both partners must trust implicitly. It is not healthy to be wary in a relationship or on your guard all the time. Also, your partner should exhibit not just one or two but most of the above signs before you begin to suspect them. You should know your partner well enough to figure out when you should be suspicious. But then, you also thought you knew them well enough to think they would never cheat on you.
1. Gets defensive if you ask questions.
You must beware always of this acts especially when they feel so guilty when you ask even just a simple question. In a relationship, life should be open for both individuals. Sharing of thoughts and ideas are typically normal. If your partner starts to get defensive or gets irritable and wants to avoid answering your question, then you should better watch out.
2. If your partner starts paying extra care to his/her appearance.
After being in a relationship for a while, most people get complacent and start neglecting their appearance because they already feel that they're already loved but if your partner is one of those, and suddenly starts taking extra care to be impeccably groomed, they could be trying to impress someone else.
3. Secretive.
If your previously open and communicative partner suddenly goes into a shell and clams up or starts concealing things from you, especially with sharing of mobile phones, gadgets, social networking sites or even things, be warned.
4. Wants to go out with his/her friends EXCLUSIVELY.
If your partner keeps making excuses to go out on dates with you or be alone with you, your antenna should be up. Also, if your partner keeps wanting to meet with his friends or classmates and tell you things like "You wouldn't be comfortable, it's my classmates/office mates/etc", you'd do well after a while, to do a background check with some of those person's your partner claiming to go out with. It's best to appear casual in your questioning though because, in case he or she is telling the truth you wouldn't want him or her to accuse you of snooping around.
5. Wants privacy.
If your partner wants to be left alone when on the telephone or stops in the middle of a phone conversation when you enter the room and tells the caller "I'll call you back", ask yourself why.
If a relationship has to be successful, both partners must trust implicitly. It is not healthy to be wary in a relationship or on your guard all the time. Also, your partner should exhibit not just one or two but most of the above signs before you begin to suspect them. You should know your partner well enough to figure out when you should be suspicious. But then, you also thought you knew them well enough to think they would never cheat on you.